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01 Sep 2008, 10:19 am / Other
You know that the body language is recognized as non verbal language in the world of dating game. And the time has come to you that you should understand these things. You might have heard about body language before this in some books, workshops and seminars and from some discussions with your friend. But you might not have clear idea to interpret this kind of language in non verbal medium. Here I will give you some tips that will help you a lot in reading the body language of your date that will make you forward in the aspect of dating and dating game. Eye Contact Eye contact is considered as one of the most important aspect of body language. Eye contact covers a great part of your body language. For example let you are sitting with your date at a café sipping mocha. At this moment if she looks at you while both of you are in conversation with each other. She may be ordering coffee but if you noticed that her attentions are not on that cup then you can think her eyes will be predetermined on you. This is the greatest clue that she feels comfort with you and she is interested on you. She is willing to get involved in the interaction by that good eye contact with you. You can conclude this situation as she is indirectly telling you that she is honest and sincere about you. If she is much interested on that cup of coffee or anything rather than you and not on you then there is a conclusion about her is she is not interested in you. She is not willing to make proper eye contact with you because the contact with will make her really uncomfortable. At last I can only say that you just hope that your date is of shy type and you may even continue to hope but the situation is almost hopeless. If you faced this situation in your first date then you have to think that as hell and that became your last date also. The worried mind If you are dating with someone who always seems to have a worried mind then you will know it easily. She may try to make sure you that she is normal she even adjust her body while sitting as if there are ants beneath her feet. In this situation you should know she is sitting with you but her mind is not concentrating on you – it is definitely wandering somewhere else. You may perhaps not be delighted with her explanation. She might be fully-occupied with someone sexy male somewhere else in her mind but not with you. Calmness is a vociferous word Of course, silence while dating is also not good thing for you because it can speak louder. You have a lot of to tell about your date so you can tell her that she is so cute she is as sweet as candy or as hot as chilli. If she is not listening to you and she has nothing to say about you. While talking is she is silent all the time and she keep on staring at the wall then you should be sure that she is not interested in you. |
