DATE: 09 Oct 2008, 4:03 pm / MOOD: Other

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DATE: 15 Sep 2008, 3:55 pm / MOOD: Other

Here we go again, another hard topic to discuss. Talking about sex and dating are something hard to do because there are no certain rules or boundaries that can be used as benchmark. Some people might think it is absurd to have sex in a first date while others consider it completely acceptable. It is also difficult to determine at which stage of a relationship sex should be a factor. Still, dating and sex are something we need to talk about just to get a hang of it.

One thing for sure is that do not engage sex if you are not fully sure about how you feel on the relationship. You need to positively have a will of maintaining your relationship before you can even start thinking about having sex with your dating partner. It is necessary to avoid complications since a relationship would be much harder to break once sex is involved in the equation.

You should not rush things out. It is not OK for most people to have sex on the first date so do not expect one from your date as well. Take your time and enjoy the process instead of focusing on when you will have an opening for sex. If all you think about on a date is sex, then maybe you should find dates that share the same orientation and goals. In most cases, you should avoid showing signs of wanting to have sex with the person you are dating on the first date. I dated a girl once who gives me the opportunity to have sex with her on the end of our first date. This can happen, depending on how good you are on your date. At that time, I politely (in the nicest way possible) said no. I wanted to have something to look forward to was my excuse to her, and she appreciate me even more. As you can see, saying no to sex when you think the time is not right can even be a good thing. Do not think about the opportunity you miss, think about future opportunities that could arise by doing so. The next time you went out on a date, you will have the liberty of making the first move for sex and she would love you even more.

If you do not want sex, especially for girls, remember that you have every right to say no. If your date pushes you onto doing sex, that he or she is not a good date at all. If you are not ready for it, all you should have to say is you are not ready. It is not worth it, dating someone whose dating goal is only to get laid and took off instantly afterwards.

Yes, dating and sex is a tricky subject. All I can say is that you have the right to set your own limits and boundaries, so do not be afraid to set them and stick to them on your dates. Your partner must respect your limit; otherwise, he or she is just not the one.

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DATE: 15 Sep 2008, 3:54 pm / MOOD: Other

One thing I could never understand in the world of dating is having blind dates. It is not that I'm against it, it's just that I think anyone should have a pretty good picture of his or her date before even going on a date. There are lots of risks involved and it is something I always think we should avoid in dating. Just to get a clearer view, I asked around about blind dates and I do get various responses. I was lucky enough to meet someone who can give me a neutral view on blind dates and even give me tips on how to prepare myself for blind dates. Now, my friend, I'm going to share those tips to you.

The first must-do when you prepare yourself for a blind date is to keep an open mind. Try to have as little expectations as possible, since you really do not know what you are dealing with here. Having expectations means you open yourself for disappointment. In addition, your expectations might stop you from noticing how great your date partner truly is. As what I have always suggested, it would be better to have a date on lunch or times where you can easily end your date with nice, seamless, excuses.

Be yourself, but do not open up too many personal details just yet. Having you date partner walks you home on your first date is really something you would not want to do. That will surely give away your home address, which can be a recipe for disaster. Be yourself, and show how lovely you are as is, but do not give away personal details until you are on your second or third date (that is if you are sure you plan on keep dating this person).

It would be better to have a friend or two with you, just in case something went bad. You can have them sitting not too far away from your or come by later as part of your exit plan. Meeting strangers is something you need to be careful doing, you know. You should at least try to gain information on your blind date prior to the event, just so you know the name of the person you are dating and probably some more background information. Set a clear exit strategy, arrange them with the help of a friend if you need to, and use that strategy once you are no longer feeling comfortable with the date. State clearly that you are not feeling comfortable with the date and you would not want to be on another date with that person. Being nice is one thing and exposing yourself to danger and discomfort is another.

Of course, you should also focus on your date. Pay close attention to conversations, since they might reveal details of your partner. Pay close attention on what you say also; you do not want to reveal to much personal information on your first date right? If done correctly, blind dates are a great opportunity to meet people that can be great for you. Follow the tips and you will be just fine.

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DATE: 01 Sep 2008, 10:19 am / MOOD: Other

You know that the body language is recognized as non verbal language in the world of dating game. And the time has come to you that you should understand these things. You might have heard about body language before this in some books, workshops and seminars and from some discussions with your friend. But you might not have clear idea to interpret this kind of language in non verbal medium. Here I will give you some tips that will help you a lot in reading the body language of your date that will make you forward in the aspect of dating and dating game.

Eye Contact

Eye contact is considered as one of the most important aspect of body language. Eye contact covers a great part of your body language. For example let you are sitting with your date at a café sipping mocha. At this moment if she looks at you while both of you are in conversation with each other. She may be ordering coffee but if you noticed that her attentions are not on that cup then you can think her eyes will be predetermined on you. This is the greatest clue that she feels comfort with you and she is interested on you. She is willing to get involved in the interaction by that good eye contact with you. You can conclude this situation as she is indirectly telling you that she is honest and sincere about you.

If she is much interested on that cup of coffee or anything rather than you and not on you then there is a conclusion about her is she is not interested in you. She is not willing to make proper eye contact with you because the contact with will make her really uncomfortable. At last I can only say that you just hope that your date is of shy type and you may even continue to hope but the situation is almost hopeless. If you faced this situation in your first date then you have to think that as hell and that became your last date also.

The worried mind

If you are dating with someone who always seems to have a worried mind then you will know it easily. She may try to make sure you that she is normal she even adjust her body while sitting as if there are ants beneath her feet. In this situation you should know she is sitting with you but her mind is not concentrating on you – it is definitely wandering somewhere else. You may perhaps not be delighted with her explanation. She might be fully-occupied with someone sexy male somewhere else in her mind but not with you.

Calmness is a vociferous word

Of course, silence while dating is also not good thing for you because it can speak louder. You have a lot of to tell about your date so you can tell her that she is so cute she is as sweet as candy or as hot as chilli. If she is not listening to you and she has nothing to say about you. While talking is she is silent all the time and she keep on staring at the wall then you should be sure that she is not interested in you.


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DATE: 15 Aug 2008, 5:41 pm / MOOD: Other

If you are in search of some ideas to impress your date here is the solution. Here, in this rule guide I will mention some effective ways to win your date's heart.

You have to make her feel very special about herself so that she can feel like a queen of the day. This will work a major part that means half of your job is done. Women are willing to get these things in them so you have to make her feel special. For this show her that you value her company by telling her a nice romantic candle light dinner, pull the chair for her, open the entrance for her, talk to waiter if he is impolite to her. These small things will make her think that you are really caring about her.

Second point is focusing your attention totally towards her when you are with her. When you go out for date, you have to make sure that you focus all of your attention on her. You should not consent to your eyes meander about. Give 100% attention and you will not find it hard not to steal a glance at that hot sexy chick in the small walks through you. For the sake of your date, please do not even think about that hot chick. Keep enduring to focus on your date. You should not be caught while you are talking with another lady other than your special girl. While you are in dinner with you make sure that your eyes are in regular contact with your date. Try to show your approval towards the things she talks about. Make her think that you are treating her special than the other people there.

Third thing is to refrain from talking about your past relations. If you have some very happy moments in memory then you can share these things but do not the moments that that you may have screwed up some of them big time. Your date might not be interested in them so do not try to re-open those closed things. Talking about past relations may bring some fond memories but she will lose attention solely. This happens because the thing you are telling can't let go past and to step into the present. If you do so annoyingly you will realize that the past story telling is turning her off.

Fourth thing is to be genuine and sincere because sincerity is the way to go. She will feel more relaxed if you show her that you are really genuine with committing the relationship with her. To show that you are sincere also genuine is the important thing so try to be natural and take the situation very easy all the time. By making she to feel happy with you, you can prove your sincerity and it will help to reduce the pressure off her in order to impress you.

Last thing I m mentioning is that you should keep your eyes wide open and be an observant. When you are dating your girl keep observing her every step keeping your eye wide open. This means no to say observing at every step she walk but take of all the things she is willing to do and her favorite choices like favorite color, favorite flower, favorite dish and like that. And sometime you can surprise her by presenting her favorite things. This will help you to impress to very much good extent.


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DATE: 13 Aug 2008, 8:52 pm / MOOD: Other

We are familiar with the fact that most of the relations are very stirring at the beginning but it is very difficult to continue it for long term so everyone should be very careful in these things. Here I will explain you few tips that will help a lot in maintaining your relationship with full excitement. It is easy to start the excited relation but it is not that much easy to maintain for long time because as the relation is in progress one or both the partners may feel guilty of setting into satisfaction and may not attempt to keep the elements of excitement in their relationship. Here are some of the tips for ensuring that your relationship stays as exciting as it was in the beginning.

You should not underestimate the value of spontaneity in the relation that you have started. Usually the peoples are unable to maintain the excitement in the relationships because the mates fall into a routine that becomes tedious as time passes. You should not afraid to purpose some new activities in your relationship that means try new things with your mate. Here to be a spontaneous does not mean to involve big decisions instantly, it can be as simple as picking up something new at the grocery store and trying new recipe for the dinner. You may do whatever you like but let your instincts take ove few minutes instead of relying on relationship.

Finding a new place for dating is also an important thing you have to understand to bring excitement in your relationship. You have to plan a detailed trip to an exotic location or you may just take the bus to a nearby place that you have never visited your adventure together will help to add spice in your relation. Spent your some time in exploring the new places and enjoy the natural beauty and new items of foods and environment that is offered to you by that place.

Another way to add flavor in your excited relation is to join for some instructional classes together with your partner such as dancing, cooking or poetry class. When you work together it will help you to learn a new skill and to bring the two of you together as you need to accomplish a goal together. The class will help you both to interact in a new way and this interaction will help to take you out of the groove.

You may plan to spend a night at a hotel because it is another way to return the exciting relationship. You should be also careful that closeness is also very important in the relationship and if both of you have discovered that this fact of your relation will help to maintain the relationship and it's spice. You have to select a romantic hotel, if possible one with a pleasant restaurant. The candlelight dinner in the restaurant and the environment of the room you have selected will help you both to mood up for your excitement. So a night in a romantic hotel and in different location will help to go a long way towards rebirth your warm relationship.


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DATE: 14 Jan 2008, 8:50 pm / MOOD: Happy

Today was a good day for Mateable.com We have went live with our other partner gigya.com. It is the Widget Gallery come and take a look at it. Please right some feedback on it thanks..

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DATE: 19 Sep 2007, 8:55 pm / MOOD: Happy

We have just released a program for PDA phones. What this program is you can login to mateable.com and check your email. This program is still in Beta. So hopefully we will keep on making this program big. You can download the CAB file to install it
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